My friend is troubled. Her husband left her, but he was abusive and it was never a happy relationship. So, please - if you're in an unhappy marriage or relationship with a husband, a wife or a martian - dump that puppy. There'll be no broken promise to God, who doesn't want you to be a doormat. LOVE is not a doormat. Move on to a happy life & find someone who is loving-kind. God, who IS LOVE, will understand and endorse THAT.